Lifestyle is the manner of living that reflects the person's values and attitudes.
"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all." - Oscar Wilde.
You do not need to create a new lifestyle if you are already leading a happy life. If you are not satisfied with the way you are living, just go through this topic and it may create a seed of thought in your mind.
To change your lifestyle you must decide what you want to do with your life. Thoughts leads to actions which in turn become habits, hence making up your mind is the first step in changing your lifestyle.
In simple terms, self-esteem is how we feel about ourselves. Everything in your life starts with you. If you look down upon yourselves you will fail at work, relations everything. Love yourself, love your body parts, love your way of thinking. Self esteem is the base for building confidence.
If you want to look stylish change your dressing style, go to gym, remember you are not living your life for someone else, do what you want. Love yourself accept your faults and rectify them it’s that simple. Ultimately you must feel good about yourself at every aspect of your life.
Find your passion:
Anyone can live a life, a person without any goals will also walk on this earth but a person who had found his passion, does something great in his field of interest will stay on this earth forever.
Realizing where your passion lies may not be that simple in some cases, just go on exploring what you are good at, what you want to do a lot, what will not fatigue you but motivates you to do more, the day you find that there is no looking back focus all your strength and resources on your passion and unbelievable things will happen.
Stop thinking a lot start implementing:
Thinking! Thinking! Thinking! No implementing!!! It’s a very dangerous disease which will unknowingly make you useless over years. Thinking is the easiest thing and implementing is the hardest. Remember easy things never give any results in our life.
Never feel sad:
Nothing can make you sad without your permission, just use your common sense at every situation and realize what caused that and try to solve any situation. Remember you are privileged than most of the people in this world, you don’t realize what you have until you see one that does not have.
Learn whom to value:
The rule of thumb is care for the one who will shed a tear when you die. Your parents “who will criticize you in front and defend you at back” that is the real relation in this world. Be cautious about the masks around you.
Kill the green monster:
Envy blinds your eyes turns you mad, and make you do horrible things, kill it in the first sight. Feeling envious is the sign of your inferiority complex; you may not get what others got but realize that you are better than them in a million other ways
Do something good for society:
Everything you have the food, shelter, clothes, all are given by this society for you. It’s an undeniable fact that you will not exist without this society. You may think you will throw money and get whatever you want, but what if no one in this society accepts your money and will not provide any service can you still keep boasting about your money?
Hence it’s our responsibility to give back to this society in any form. If you really want to help you will surely find a way.
The thing that you have to remember constantly is never succumb to anyone; you are all alone in this world. If you don’t realize this you would just be adding years of regret to your life.
Various people bond with you during various phases of your life and everyone has their own life, changing yourselves for pleasing others and expecting others to please you will do nothing good but take away your peace of mind.
Quote from Paulo Coelho’s Alchemist:
If you really want something then the whole universe conspires to get it for you
Remember till your last breath you have a chance to change, better late than never.